Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Korean songs and their beautiful lyrics



You're Leaving Me

It can come to us
I didn't know
That separation could come
Maybe my love wasn't enough
Maybe it was lacking
I'm sorry for everything
But telling me to live as someone who doesn't know you
Telling me to go meet other people
The reality of your words
Has not sunk into me yet
You're leaving me...
How can you leave me?
Don't do this
Please...
Look at my sadness
What do you want me to do with this regret?
I want to turn back time
Don't leave me
I miss you so much that my heart will explode
I'm left alone like this
Buy you are coldly frozen up
Why aren't those words sinking in?
You're leaving me..
How can you leave me?
I could have given you everything by now
I was going to make you happy and carefree
My heart hurts
I miss you so much
Maybe if I wait like this, you'll return...
I didn't know I would be alone again
I stupidly thought you would be the last one in my life
Don't do this please...I really love you
I was going to make you happy and carefree
I want to turn back time
Don't leave me..
I miss you so much that my heart will explode
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This is the lyrics to this Korean song sung by Kim Bum Soo titled 'You're leaving me'. Honestly I am fascinated by the lyrics and the beautiful vocals of this singer. His songs fascinate and move me at the same time.

The video clip from youtube is credited to its owner. Give it a listen and tell me what you think. Go K-POP!!!

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

2010..its trials and tribulations

2010 was a challenging year...

Airiel's numerous hospitalisations...

Marriage issues between Aries and I which rocked our marriage to its very core..

My sister and her health problems...

The list goes on...

But a person does not really know how strong they really are until being strong is the only choice they have, and that is what I learned about myself and our family this year.

I realised I am  a lot stronger than I ever thought I could possibly be...

I am cautiously optimistic about next year..

Here's to the end of 2010...

Moga 2011 akan lebih baik.

Amin

P.S - To the silent readers, friends, foes, lovers and haters, here's to next year. Terima kasih kerana persahabatan, teguran dan cemuhan anda. You all have helped me experience this life. I am...forever grateful.

This is love part 3

photomap

Day 2 of Year End Hols

Monday, December 20, 2010

Missing someone you never met

I have this feeling at the end of the year..

Every end of the year...

But this year it just gets stronger, you know why? Because of Maher Zain...recently I said on facebook, only 2 people can make me cry these days, Aries and Maher Zain...hehe

I think to myself, is it possible for me to miss someone I have never met? But it is..and I miss him, truly, madly and deeply...

I used to read stories about his life, I tell my son about his virtues, I lecture to Aries about how kind he is to his wives...

I miss my prophet, Muhammad s.a.w.

I listen to the song 'Chosen One' and I get choked up.

And I think about what a great loss it is for those who have forgotten a person who was loved most by Allah s.w.t. and yes, that includes me as well at times.

I wish to meet him one day, after this life. But I do not know whether I will ever get a glimpse of him at the rate of how I am living my life...

I realise, after it all...the job, the cars, the money... there is a void in your heart only faith can fill...

Sigh

Sunday, December 19, 2010

Welcome Home

"If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were.."

As I said, I did not want to announce it on my blog until it was confirmed..and yes, it has been confirmed.

Today is Sunday and Aries is here...

I will not be sending him back to the airport today...or next week...or the week after that..

He is home....

Terima kasih Allah...

Thank you Aries..for being brave enough to take this step.

Semoga Tuhan memberkati kita sekeluarga

Amin..

Friday, December 17, 2010

This is how I love

I know this is tacky..like super tacky...

But when I heard this song, it resounded ... this is me..this is how I love. I do not know about Aries, heck there are issues between us which I do not see it fit to mention here...

But this is how I love.

Cintaku 'kekal'. So I need to just type the lyrics down.

Kekal - Spider


Tidak percaya dan pernah aku menduga
Kasih terpisah dalam sekelip mata
Sukar untukku dimengerti
Berat untuk difahami
Mengapa mawarku berduri

Kau pelangi mengiringi gerimisku
Kau, kau di dalam hatiku
Kekal dalam ingatan
Kau semangat kasihku
Kekal sepanjang zaman
Kira kau dan aku
Satu hari nanti
Akan bersatu

Biar terbakar
Jiwa diperjalanan
Aku bersumpah pulang ke pangkuan

Kau cahaya menyinari duniaku
Kau, kau di dalam hatiku
Kekal dalam ingatan
Kau semangat kasihku
Kekal sepanjang zaman
Kira kau dan aku
Satu hari nanti
Akan bersatu..

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How do you love?

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

spider - kekal




I do not own this video, it is copyrighted to its owner.

I just love this song..

The lyrics are so meaningful...

Our new investment for Airiel and future kids - Grolier Education Series Part 1

Hi,

I was taking about telling you all about me and Aries' new investment for Airiel's education, but never got around to telling you the details. So here goes, it is the "Grolier Education Series".

What intrigued me in the first place is the books in the series, it reminds me of my childhood in UK, the books get you interested in reading and learning and are not exam oriented or whatever like here kan. These kind of books cultivated my life-long passion for reading.

I am going to tell you the details of what was given to me:-

These books are what I am using on Airiel now, the beginners books. There are 4 books in all, full of pics and wonderful colours and as you can see, the titles of the books speak for themselves. I am currently on the book 'Words that name things'. I only sit down with him and teach him names in 1 page a day which is about 5 mins.


 These are the "Story of A day" series. There are 4 books in all, each showcasing the seasons i.e. Winter, Summer, Autumn and Spring. There are about  366 stories in the 4 books, which is enough for a year. And the books are about 1 page long sahaje. I read one story to him everyday before bedtime which takes about 5 mins. The Grolier person says that it is not about him reading the words (because Airiel is too young) but him 'hearing' us speak the words. You know how our kids can imitate anything we say at the moment kan? Mcm itulah


 I think this is for Airiel much later, maybe when he is 3 + or 4+ so am not currently using them yet, but I read them myself and they contain information as per the title of each book, in short sentences and colourful images. It is in a Question and Answer form. This I think I will start letting him read or read it to him when he starts asking me weird questions.. hehe


This is perhaps the best feature of the education series, the logico board. I will explain to you guys how to use in my part 2 of this post. 


 These are the 'I Wonder Why' series. They have answers to practically everything hehe. Like 'Why do spiders spin webs?' or 'Why can't ostriches fly?' So cool!!, also reserved to when airiel is a little older



My pc won't let me turn these pics somehow...shessh..but anyways this is another interesting series i.e. the "Help Me be Good Series". As you guys can see above, the series teaches kids that its bad to lie,bad to break promises and not only that, it tells the kids why by putting it all in short story form. I have read around 2 to Airiel, on why it is bad to have tantrums and why it is bad to lie.

Together with the above series, we are given a parental guide on how to maximise the use of the books and sing along songs on being good!!! 



Hehe, this is the free bookcase that came with the set. It's a DIY so I am quite proud because I did it myself and Airiel helped as well. 

You know how we can spend 2k+ on PB corsets lah, bags lah, shoeslah, makeuplah, gadgets etc. so I am sure we can invest on this set of books as well.

The receipts you get can be used for tax purposes and you can pay by installments. I am paying RM125 a month for 2 years for this set.
Why do I think it is a worthly investment? because I can use it not only for Airiel but for my other future kids as well. I have definitely seen a difference in using this system on Airiel. He is learning a lot of words fast!!! and is not more interested in books than he does toys..

If you guys are interested in purchasing this set for your kids (its never too late to start getting your kids to love books instead of incessantly watching tv), please leave a comment here or e-mail me at idzerqq@yahoo.co.uk ok?

Updates on how to use the Logico system later.

Monday, December 13, 2010

Airiel updates

I have not uploaded anything on Airiel for a while..

Sometimes I feel so possessive over him that I just do not feel like sharing...you know what I mean..Airiel is like a secret I want to keep all to myself...

But he is just too cute lah...!

Ok, let the pics do the talking:-

Okay, so the pics are blur..but this is him speaking to God knows who on the telephone. He says.."hello, siapa tu?" 

 Everytime we take him to the playground, he does not want to play with anything else but the swing..a full 40 minutes on the swing I tell you!!!


 And Abah joins in on the fun!!!

 This is his cheeky face...hehe

 He likes bahulu and all manner of traditional kuih...


And he truly does 'light up my life'...

How mama and Abah loves you Airiel!!

May Allah bless us all!!!!

I actually cannot wait to share my good news with you guys..!!! tapi wait until sunday when I KNOW it's not a dream ok?

A long time coming...

Me and Aries are ecstatic at the moment...

This indeed, has been a long time coming...

I do not want to announce it yet.... because I'm afraid of jinxing this whole thing ...

Will announce when the time is right...

Pinch me someone...because this cannot be real...!!!

Hehehe *gelak sampai terguling-guling*

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

In a bad mood

I am in a bad mood.

I remember a friend telling me that I am 'outrageous'.

And I asked her back :- 'You mean like Kimora outrageous?'

She said :- 'Who is Kimora?'

I said : - 'You have no business describing me as outrageous if you don't know who she is '

Har har har.........

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I wear hijab, and baju kurung is my staple outfit...but I also know that I say things that people won't normally expect people who are dressed like me to say.

I am not in the best of moods today:-

1. I am wearing my PB corset and I overate, so now I can't breathe. I mean, they say you don't have to diet makan PB ni, but hell, how much can you eat if your stomach is constricted by a 'waist nipper' to half its ordinary size?;

2.  I am itching to take the corset off right, but then I remember Aries' shaking hands as he was paying the 2+k after I promised him that wifey is gonna look all slim and hot for him to play with..sheeshhh;

3. I still have not picked up my 'triple excellent'. Sampai je area Mid Valley aritu.. jem semacam..this week wedding plak..bilalah nak ambil ni?

4. There are 13 summonses in Myeg courtesy of blackie who is now with the FIL. Belum pergi Balai Polis check, belum pergi JPJ check. Damn...brape ribu nak kena byr ni?...ada yg dah keluar waran tangkap ke ni? Bad moodnyee bila fikir...

5. I have a fear of high heels after I fell down the office stairs, so skrang pakai slipper pergi mana-mana. I look like a duck, walk like a penguin and I miss wearing high heels..tapi bila fikirkan sakitnya fracture 2 of my toes...pakai balik slipper..haisshhh..

6. Aries dah jadi the only lawyer kat tempat dia kerje..does that mean he can never take leave? What about family time? I thought he is entitled to 21 days leave or is it 14 days in a year? Aper kes? Nak marah..nak marah...

7. Aper kes ni? bomoh bomoh orang? Pakai minyak ularlah, bomoh boyan lah? Dah lupa wujudnye Tuhan ke? Sounds like a scene out of science fiction movie? I kid you not ... this thing actually happened, kalau nak keji pun kejilah tp janganlah nak melampau sgt...kalau sesiapa yg bertanggungjawab ni susah nak mati esok, tolongla jangan nak cari aku atau Aries mintak ampun...kitorg sukejer tgk ko susah mati faham?

And I could go on and on about how shitty life can be these days...but then I look over to the picture of Airiel and Zack which I have on my desk..beristighfar sekejap, I feel strangely content.

I know just what will do the trick.... "A soy toffee nut latte"

Alhamdulillah...

Tahun baru ini, kena berazam utk menjadi hamba yang lebih bersyukur.

Amin

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Revamping big time...

I am in the midst of revamping my blog...

Due to many requests, I have decided to categorise my links to blogshops properly, senangla you all nak click semua kan?


Believe it or not, all the blogshops tu are in my Google Reader, so I see all their updates daily.

For anyone who wants to know how to utilise their google reader, you can pm me or leave me a message here.

Kalau malas, just use my blog tu click lah...

Hehe..

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Duit keluar mcm air

Ohhh...
Sekarang ni memang musim duit keluar lah...

I mean...the price of RON97 has gone up by 15 cents per litre? RON95 by like 5 cents per litre?

And we're all so quiet? I wonder how come masa Pak Lah announce naik minyak kita naik marah gila-gila.

Apalah agaknya si Najib ni mendrumkan kita ni semua sampai kita terima aje cam org bodoh.

Anyways...

Money draining list:-

1. Stevie's Road Tax and Insurance - 2K ++

2. Mackie's repair costs - 1750

Just to name a few....

Meanwhile, Aries is on his way back to Tanah Merah...reasons of which shall be undisclosed.

All I can say is... if I find out who the culprit for all this nonsense is...I swear I will beat the crap out of them myself...

You may think you are great...but God is greater...

BTW, me and Aries ada jumpa tempat makan best kat Kampung Baru, maybe will blog about it later...

and my 'triple excellent' dah siap...cuma tinggal nak amik je...

pics up later k?

Tata and Amin.

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

It was 3 years ago today

Tak pernah sampai, namun tanganku sampai,
berdiri di daratan, namun aku lemas di dasaran,
suatu yang asing namun itulah ujian,
tali Allah jualah kita berpegang...


Happy 3rd Anniversary Suami


God Bless us..


Amin

Sunday, November 28, 2010

Premium Beautiful - Part 1

Hi all, I think this will be the 1st of the many posts I am going to have on my experience with Premium Beautiful...

I was first intrigued by the Corset when Kak Lily started writing about it in her blog.

Doing what any sensible women of the 21st century would to find more info.. I googled this thing up..

This is where I met Kak Ema. Her blog is here..

I left her a message in her chatbox and she called me up. She was living near the Subang area and we agreed to meet up for a fitting the next day.

After taking my measurements, I was fitted with 3 items which make up the Premium Beautiful set which are:-

1. Girdle;
2. Long Bra; and
3. Bengkung

Aries almost fainted when he saw the price of the set which is 2k +...but sayang bini kan..so dengan terketar-ketarnye..dia membayar...haha *wink-thanks Aries*

Anyways, this set has a lifetime warranty..so I sort of think, what the heck, lets just try this out..

I have been wearing PB for about a week now and I have to say....I can see a difference definitely..

1. My stretch marks are disappearing;
2. The flab on my tummy is almost gone; and
3. I have lost 1 kilo (this is just from 1 week of wearing this corset).

I am happy but i have to say this though...people ask me..is it comfortable? I have to be honest and say..well, it is not as comfortable as not wearing a corset..if you know what I mean.

But if you intend on losing weight..and get back into shape, and you're to damn lazy to exercise...you might as well try this out.  After 2 days of wearing the corset, you would have become so used to wearing it, you would not even notice that you are wearing one. For tips on how to go to the bathroom, please PM me or leave a comment here and I can help you out.

For those who are interested in buying this corset, you can also PM me or leave me a comment and I will refer you to my Kak Ema. Or of course, you can straight away click on the link above and contact her directly.

I will keep you updated on my progress...

Next up..weekend happenings..

Tata!!

P.S Until I get my mackie back from the hospie, this blog will have to look like this for a little while longer...planning a revamp real soon!!! Ohh...and to my followers, sudilah follow again..so sori terdelete you all aritu..huggsss

Friday, November 26, 2010

Up and Running

Yes...

I am still here...

Am still sorting out the details of the blog to make it look as normal as possible.

i.e as it was before.

My next post will be about my latest purchase..which everyone has been raving about..

The Premium Beautiful Corset..

Wait for it..

Monday, November 22, 2010

Bye bye Firefly

Last week marked the end of the once 'beautiful' relationship me and Aries shared with Firefly*z, Malaysia's community airline..or so they say.

With arrivals at Subang Airport (some 2 mins away from my place) and the reasonable price tag, Firefly*z was hands down our favourite airline to travel to and fro from JB to KL. Keyword here is 'WAS'

Unfortunately, last week. Whilst buying tickets to and from JB, we were informed that the overall price for Firefly*z tickets to and from can reach upwards of 500 smackaronies. Yes guys, firefly*z has outdone itself this time around. It has shot itself in the foot by raising the prices of its tickets yet again...

So with a sad look in our eyes, we turned over to the Airas*ia counter and bought our tickets, we were pleasantly surprised to know how cheap it was, costing less than half of what Firefly*z was charging...

LCCT is far away..Yes, but after making calculations for the oil, tol..it was still way,way cheaper than paying for the Firefly*z tickets.

Was surveying tickets for this weekend, checkout the prices:-

400 + tau 


And the choice is obvious...

Sorry firefly*z but you have lost me and Aries as a customer for good. It was good while it lasted but I need to make financially intelligent choices and your prices just do not make sense anymore.

Bye bye 

Sunday, November 21, 2010

Early anniversary present....

I am currently blogging from my Iphone. Airiel rosakkan mackie (my beloved macbook) so its currently at an apple hospital... sob sob. Nenda plak tgh pakai spare laptop so I can't use it plak. Sigh...

But not having my laptop has given me perspective...I am currently reading a book, something I have stopped doing since Airiel was born...and it feels great..

That said, this post is actually for Aries... so here goes.

Aries, I know our 3rd anniversary is still 8 days away, but it falls on a Tuesday and I have a trial on that day and won't be able to come down to celebrate. I know you have a very busy schedule too. So we won't be able to celebrate the night you promised my father that you would take care of me for the rest of my life, the night you took an oath before God to take me as your wife.

I thought of surprising you much later, tp dah kebetulan masuk kedai, so apa salahnye kan?

Airiel pun masuk gamba sekali..hehe


Aries and the pressies...

Hope you like them Aries..

Hehe, which begs the question... what is my anniversary present?

Ssshhh..nanti...tak siap lagi...tapi I'll give you guys a clue.. it's a 'Triple Excellent"... *grin*

P.S - This is not perfect, but this is love and Aries, I love you...truly, madly, deeply. Happy pre-3rd anniversary. 

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Aidiladha in JB

Aries tak dapat cuti...so I came down to JB instead..Airiel pulak raya di KL bersama nenda, bonda and atuk...

Alangkah sunyinya beraya berdua sahaja...

Have not been to JB in quite a while...and during my 2 day 1 night stint, I immediately remembered why I left in the first place...

We went to watch Harry Potter and believe it or not, these things happened inside the cinema:-

1.  2 sets of parents brought their babies into the cinema...the babies could not have been more than 2 months old from the looks of it.  Whenever there was a dramatic scene, the babies would be disturbed by the loud sounds and cry. I mean, I ain't no doctor but I would have thought that exposing such loud sounds to barely 2 months old babies would damage their hearing... when i just got pregnant in JB, i remember going to a movie and seeing the same thing...is this the norm here?

2.  Just before the movie started an older chinese woman and younger chinese male teenager who was seated side by side got themselves into a heated argument... it was so bad that the woman was screaming obscenities and the male kept screaming 'shut up'. I felt like screaming myself; and

3.  The movie attendants actually asked me for my ticket in the middle of the movie because 2 teens claim we took their seats. I was so angry. I asked the attendant to check their tickets first...but NO, he still wanted to take mine. When he checked theirs (which he should have done first anyway) he found that the movie tickets they bought was for the 12.15 movie while mine was at 11.45. Idiot!!! Andthese teens came in at 12.15 claiming we took their seats. Helo tak baca tiket sendiri ke ngok!!!

4.  In the rush to find my movie tickets which was buried somewhere inside my huge handbag..I dropped the parking ticket and Aries ended up having to pay 25 for the lost ticket..!!!

ONLY IN JB I tell you!!!!

Aside from remembering why I hate the place, I also remembered the parts that made the place bearable i.e. the FOOD!!!






Senibong






Botak's Place

As I was flying back home to my Airiel, I saw the most breathtaking view from the plane (taken with my Iphone):-

"Then which of the favours of your Lord will you deny?..."
[Surah Ar- Rahman 55:58]

MasyaAllah....

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Aidiladha

Just taking a moment to wish everyone Aidiladha.

Moga kita dapat menjadi hamba yang lebih baik kepada yang Maha Esa.

Ingat ...yang jaga rezeki kita hanya DIA..bukannya someone that claims  'tengok...kalau kau baik dengan aku...hidup ko senang...kalau aku tak suka engkau....apa jadi...bla bla'

Nope, definitely not YOU. Harap-harap terbuka hatinya untuk dia sedar yang dia juga sebenarnya adalah 'hamba' sahaja.

Seperti kata-kata Kak Thalha...kami takkan membalas dosa dengan dosa...tapi dengan doa. Amin

Ohh, I cannot seem to get these words out of my head 'So...you are delegating matters upwards is it..?' Haha... Adui...

Word!!!

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Going soy...inter alia

This weekend was a profound one on me...

I have managed to talk to Aries about some issues between us and I feel so relieved.

He was trying to pujuk me by taking me to Bora Asmara on Saturday night..but the place was booked for a wedding. We ended up at Tony Roma's in the Curve instead..


Kickin Shrimp

The starter was the only thing we liked, my lamb chops lacked seasoning and hubs said he did not like his ribs and that his side dishes were overcooked...it was a disappointment. I took pics tapi mcm dah takde dlm fon, maybe Airiel dah padam.

On Sunday, we went to Mid Valley to buy my anniversary pressie. Bought my SKII toner and was scouting around for a blazer but could not find one I liked. Went to buy the pressie!! hehe..hope it will be ready before anniversary date. Anyways...

Bought Airiel his first.....

Golf Set hehe!!!!

Ohh, in Mid Valley and Gardens, we ate at Belanga I think..

Aries' nasi kerabu daging 


Me nasi kerabu ayam 


My soya grass jelly and Aries' bloody goody (yes, that was the name of the drink)


There was a snack 'keropok lekor black pepper' which sedap gile tapi takde gamber sebab habis makan dulu. Keh keh. Prices for the food was not really cheap though... 

I have decided that from now on, all coffee I buy, I would substitute milk with soy milk. harap takkan  menggemukkan la kan...hence the title of this post. 

Ohh, I am also in love with the smell of Calvin Klein's new fragrance, "Beauty". Despite the fact dah byk sgt perfume sampai tak terpakai-pakai...

Ish..esok nak puasa sunat...jom!!!

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Aries and Libra compatibility



Tahulah mende ni ngarut kan..

Tapi saje nak tgk je... 

Anyways, here is what I found online on me and Aries' compatibility:-

"Aries Man and Libra Woman
Aries man and Libra woman may experience instant attraction when they meet for the first time. This attraction may last a little longer too, but whether it lasts for an entire time or not is an entirely different question. Both of them love intellectual stimulation, are extroverts, love to talk and face no difficulty in interacting with people. However, their temperament may be different somewhat; actually quite a lot. Her indecisiveness may make him lose his temper, while his aggressiveness might disturb her inner harmony. Here, adjustment is the keyword."


"Aries and Libra, Fire and Air, the warrior Mars and the Beautiful Venus... Moreover, you are opposite signs in the zodiac! (Libra is at six sun signs away from Aries.) 




In just a few words? You either complete each other or compete against each other. There is no middle way with you two: it is all or nothing. But Fire needs Air, and since air also means wind, which likes playing with the fire flames, there is everything between you two rather than nothing.


Libra, as a sign of equilibrium (that (s)he always looks for), is very skillful when it comes to negotiation and (s)he knows how to bring peace in your life and how to incite you - as an Air sign, Libra communicates very well.


Unlike the impetuous and thoughtless Aries, Libra thinks objectively, progressively, and divides problems in smaller "parts" that are easier to "digest".


A born diplomat, loving beauty and showing the gentleness characteristic of the love symbolized by his/her tutorial planet (Venus), Libra is good at making long-term plans and contracts. To an Aries, this is an essential quality, because the native of this sign is a very good initiator, but not very efficient in carrying out plans."


"These two Signs share the great sexual attraction common to all Signs opposite in polarity. At the same time, though this pair's connection is amazing when it's good, it can be extremely challenging when it's bad. All polarities have energies that tend to tangle or knot if understandings can't be reached. As a combination, Aries and Libra are well-balanced. Charming, cultured Libra can teach brash Aries something about style. Libra prizes harmony in a relationship and will go to great lengths to maintain it. Aries is very decisive and can teach indecisive Libra about relying on intuition for answers. You both tend to be active, dynamic, mobile and assertive. Each one of you is special and leads something of a charmed life. Both Aries and Libra are usually positive, competitive, flamboyant, life affirming people. Enjoy some "naps" together. 


Opposites attract, the old saying goes. Like many an old saying, there's a grain of truth to it. When Aries, the fiery Ram, rushes to embrace the polar opposite sign of Libra, the Scales, Mars and Venus come together in a passionate encounter. That's if the Scales can decide what to wear on a first date! However, if the Ram's desires take precedence, the Scales may not be wearing it for long. And Scales can be swept along by the Ram's delight in a new adventure. But will the adventure last?

When Aries and Libra come together in a love affair, the intrinsic polarity of the Zodiac is invoked. Aries and Libra are directly opposite one another in the Zodiac, 180 degrees apart. Each Sign possesses qualities that the other lacks; combined with Libra's natural yen for harmony, this can be a relationship that enjoys great balance. Aries is the Sign of Self while Libra is the Sign of Partnership, and the differences continue: Aries is impulsive, excitable and ready to jump right into something new and exciting, while Libra is indecisive, peace-loving and prefers a calm, smooth approach. Aries can learn from Libra that their own way isn't necessarily the best way. Essentially, if Aries wants to be happy, Aries needs to be first and best. Libra is a nice person and tends to be a bit more cultured and "better" than others. Usually, Libra is also diplomatic enough to keep your superiority complexes in check. The more that Libra becomes fair-minded, impartial and unprejudiced, the happier Libra becomes.

Aries, a Fire Sign and Libra, an Air Sign, are idealists and romantics, but the speed at which they proceed is a defining difference. Air feeds Fire, so the Scales will admire your independence Aries and bend for decisive action, just as you will be drawn to the Libran style and love of cooperation. Both signs have flair, a sense of drama and passionate concerns, so it will be a roller-coaster ride at first. However, Aries impulsive actions may soon clash with your Libran lover's tendency to weigh things up. Libra enjoys the moment of deliberation, where you'll just lose patience. You'll simply fail to understand the agony of indecision and equally the Scales may find your rashness rather wearing. Arguments will ensue if a clear understanding is not achieved. You must pace yourselves. Give in gracefully now and again, or you will learn that the Scales is also a Cardinal Sign and a force to be reckoned with. Aries is here to start something new, to go where no one else has gone and to do what no one else has done. The stars dare Aries to be a pioneer, a champion and a doer. Sexually, Aries has got some naturally hot stuff. Libra has the potential for much social intercourse and favourable public contact. To really thrive, Libra needs to be part of a loving, committed "marriage." You both like to start things and to take the initiative. You're each restless, energetic, outgoing, opportunistic and ambitious. Probably, you're both more busy than bored. Libra may need for Aries to cool it from time to time.

Libra's love of harmony extends to the environment, so a messy Ram may soon seem a blot on the landscape. Mutual effort at domestic harmony will be essential. While Libra loves vigorous debate, the Scales does not care for open conflict. Learn to sort things at the negotiation table, rather than on the field of battle. Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars and Libra is ruled by the Planet Venus. This is a great match, as these are the Planets of Passion and Love, respectively. Venus and Mars go well together as they're the two sides of the love relationship coin. They're universally recognized as male and female and this relationship is a good balance of masculine and feminine energy. Venus is about the beauty of romance while Mars is about the passion of romance. What a good combination! All things being equal, Libra prefers civil conversation. Libra usually does not find reason for raised voices or crude language at inappropriate times. Embarrassment can be an issue for Libra. Libra likes to ask for advice, but does not like to be told what to do. Libra needs a cushy job in a swish environment.

This combination will be at its best when joined by common interests and concerns, whether matters of belief, or creative endeavour. Such a bond will more readily allow each of you to see the value of the opposite view your partner contributes. 
Overall, this can be an exciting match and one destined for greatness and longevity, as long as each of you remembers your partner has a key to the problem you can't solve. Without trust and reliance, Fire and Air will be all flash and dazzle until they fizzle out, so learn to rely on and trust one another. Then nothing will hold you back."

"A Libra is indecisive and self- indulgent, which can create problems in the married life. In case of a Libra and an Aries pair, the Libra is more of a thinker and takes decision, after considering both the pros and cons of the matter. Whereas, an Aries takes the decision, according to his convenience and likings, he is more inclined towards finalizing the decision, then thinking about its consequences. This can create a bit tiff in the marriage of the Aries and the Libra, due to the ego clashes between the two. In any case the bride and the groom need to understand that there is no space of ego in a married life. All marriages are to be based on the understanding and care shared between the two, which would help in the movement of the marriage relation in the right direction.


Once the above said problem is resolved, and both the Aries and Libra possesses, respect for each other and their married life, a strong bonding is said to develop between the two. The marriage relation of the Aries and Libra is based on a strong emotional bond, which binds the bride and groom for lifetime. A Libra is quite, whereas an Aries is lively and adventurous. These opposites of two are bound to add flavor to their lives. Also, it is believed that two people of opposite nature compliment each other's personality and let their married life, move on the right track of happiness.


With some adjustments and learning things from each other, a Libra and an Aries, is believed to live a happy married life. The patience and thoughtfulness of the Libra and the fun and adventurous behavior of the Aries will surely fill fun and enlightenment in the lives of the two. Horoscope compatibility of the Libra and Aries is positive and believed to flourish, once; both the bride and groom develop a sense of understanding and love for each other."


"Fiery Aries and Airy Libra have natural affinity though they are opposite signs. They can repel as well as attract If conflict arises, Aries triumphs while Libra becomes upset and leaves. Initially, there is often a strong physical or emotional attraction between these two. The archetypal Arian and his sexy sidekick -a real libran lass is a good duo. Librans will say they don't like the sound of that one bit, but once they get going, they'll enjoy every minute of it and the eroticism will awaken alll sorts of urges and surges inside them."




"There is a powerful initial attraction between these two opposites, for in certain areas each supplies what the other lacks. Both are fond of of sexual pleasures, but the Aries probably will try to go too far too quickly. The Libra is inclined to idealize everything and can lose all illusions. Later Libra will look for someone less demanding, and Aries will bind someone more adoring. The physical connection is possible, but only temporarily. The marriage is very rare."


"Aries man might look very stern but he is actually sensitive. He wants everyone to like him, even to love him family, friends, and strangers and naturally the woman he owns. He needs to be proud of the woman he loves, to be able to show her off and brag about her and chooses a woman who will fit the bill. The moment someone realizes him that he has been quite selfish, he will quickly apologize in order to cope with the guilt.


A Libran woman’s basic instinct is tact and thoughtfulness, which is usually blended nicely and equally with her own well-designed and controlled, forceful drive and aggressive nature. She probably will be superior to lots of other women, super bright and startlingly attractive, curvaceous and so forth; this woman will fit all of an Aries’s requirements. There are a very few people who can deal with the level of determination showcased by the Libra woman.
The Libra lady is quite a lot of woman. Very few men can cope with her powerful combination of masculine determination and delectable daintiness. But Aries man loves to take up any challenges that the Libra woman throws at him. If the Libra woman can adequately use her charm to influence the Aries man, he can reach great heights of success. She will hardly dry to dampen his enthusiasm through criticism and the Aries man loves this quality of hers, and in return he will patiently listen to the things that she wants to discuss about. If she uses her charm and patience to direct his flaming ambitions and incredible energies toward some worthy goal, he can become a crusader for all manner of goodness and glory.
They will find a lot of happiness through their physical relationship. The feminine nature of the Libra woman and the passionate nature of the Aries man create a great chemistry for the physical relationship. Her femininity and his masculinity harmonize beautifully and smoothly, in the most natural way. This man’s sexual image of himself is closely woven into his ability to be always right and emerge victorious in the eyes of the woman he loves. But if at any situation he feels that he have been rejected in any way, then he can become very cold towards the Libra woman. He must take the lead in their sexual togetherness, as in every other way. If she allows this, and understands the needs behind it, he’ll be the most sensitive, romantic, sentimental, affectionate, and passionate lover she could imagine.
Both Aries man and Libra woman love to lead their own way. A relationship will never work when there’s a constant battle over leadership, they’ll have to learn to be equals. They’ll have to learn to ride their horses side by side, as equals, not as superior and subordinate. The Libra woman should not try to manipulate the Aries man quite often because he can easily assess her intentions, and will stop complying with her wishes. At times the Libra women will feel that the she is losing the equilibrium in her life because the Aries man always influences her decisions, and the reason she complies with his wishes is only because she is in love with him. It’s the only way they’ll ever find the way back home into each others’ hearts when they’ve quarreled and both of them have been deeply hurt.
Aries man and Libra woman are totally divergent personalities but still they make a lovely pair. The Aries man likes the calmness exuded by the Libra woman. The Libra woman likes the way Aries man treats her and keeps her engaged in one thing or the other."



"Aries natives are frank, high-spirited, direct and candid. They make for enthusiastic and generous friends, but need to curb their competitive impuluses and the manner in which those impulses affect those around them. Subject of this Sign also need to learn how to temper their natural aggressiveness and use reason coupled with diplomacy when dealing with others. Generally, when it comes to friendships, these individuals get along better with members of their own gender rather than members of the opposite sex. Since those governed by Aries like to get their own way and often pit the wishes of self against what is best for any partnership, this can frequently lead to conflict. The capacity for deep affection should result in faithfulness with regard to both love and friendship, but these natives need to guard against an inclination toward jealousy and/or over-possessiveness. There is a strong belief here that "what is mine, is mine," which could easily manifest itself in an overly-dominating attitude toward certain family members.

Usually possessed with a high sex drive, individuals ruled by Aries make for passionate but fastidious lovers. However, there is a negative side to associations with others. Aries natives are easily irritated by slowness or moderation in companions and, though sensitive themselves, will often ride roughshod over the sensitivities of those around them. There is some difficulty here regarding an understanding the opposite sex, which can cause much misunderstanding and unhappiness when it comes to love affairs. The intensity of the Aries sexual urge can drive the individual who falls within this Sign's jurisdiction toward promiscuity and a counting of conquests. It can also trick its natives into an early and often unwise marriage which could end in disaster. In the home, Aries individuals will always want to be "top dog" and are extremely possessive of their mates, but not always the most faithful of partners themselves. Romantic Aries individuals usually have no need of "hearts and flowers" to give them that "warm and fuzzy" glow. Far more important to them is a partner who is equally strong and self-possessed...one who will challenge them to reach greater heights both mentally and physically. It also helps if the Aries' partner can handle the occasional fiery argument and become a master at the art of reconciliation.


In spite of the fact that the Aries nature is passionate one with a gift for loving deeply, these individuals do not wear their hearts on their sleeves. Although they themselves may not be good at expressing their love in words, they do adore hearing endearments from their loved ones and can listen to declarations of undying affection and everlasting fidelity with the most ardent appreciation. The greatest Aries weakness in affairs of the heart is a tendency to cross-examine and ask too many questions. Although these individuals are not in the habit of mincing words, it is important to be tactful with sweethearts or keep silent when things get out of hand. By being more tolerant, those governed by this Sign will find greater happiness. Aries natives are possessed with a red-hot energy which often proves irresistible...and is certainly never boring. They prefer to initiate relationships and the role of seducer comes to them quite easily. However, this sizzling "dance of romance" will only work on those strong enough to stay in the game. In short, and Aries individual desire a partner who can go toe-to-toe...whether it be over lunch or in the bedroom.


Due to a strong executive ability, Aries subjects usually do better on their own rather than by entering into any business partnership. However, they do need business associates to a degree and their best choice would likely be a native of Taurus. While Aries can team well with Sagittarius, Aquarius and Pisces, any of these are apt to profit more from the alliance unless the Aries individual is strongly dominant. Any business association between Aries and Capricorn or Aries and Scorpio may prove to be highly productive of problems.


Though usually insistent on strict discipline, Aries parents are highly devoted to their children, even to the point of laying down their own lives. In short, there is no more defensive or loving parent to be found within the entire Zodiac. "



"You’re opposite signs who can match up well, but you sometimes baffle one another, too. Aries rules the self and Libra rules relationships. Libra is a lover; Aries is a fighter. Your polar extremes can be a great complement if you borrow what the other does best. Rash, temperamental Aries could stand to give others the benefit of the doubt, to look before leaping—something the wise Judge does well. Languid, overly accommodating Libra can learn to speak up, say no, and take action instead of pondering the possible consequences for a year. Although your differences can be irritating, they also make you a well-rounded couple if you play them right.
When Aries needs to rant, patient Libra offers uninterrupted listening, capped with sage, sensible feedback. In return, Aries helps Libra overcome a mortal fear of conflict, teaching this sign how to stand up for his rights. As parents, or even business partners, you play the good cop/bad cop routine like seasoned pros. Just be willing to adjust your internal thermostats as needed. Hotheaded Aries will need to dial down the anger, lest all that concentrated emotion throw Libra’s scales off balance. Erudite Libra will need to descend from that lofty, cultured perch and take a bold risk. (No, Aries does NOT consider ten years a reasonable time to wait for an engagement ring—and never will.) Compromise is essential for you to find a rhythm."

Sigh..mcm tak berapa bagus jer prospek...alahai

Hehe...wats your compatibility with your partner ehh?
The respective horoscopes are credited to their owners.

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

April 2011

Yesterday I got all excited.

I went on the Fireflyz website to book tickets to JB for Raya Haji.

And there was an promo to fly to KK..as low as RM9 one way okies?

I thought, this is a perfect time to have a family trip!!! All of us, my family has never managed to travel together to one place. We are just so busy with our schedules...so I arranged for a family meeting (yes, that's how it works with my family)

Schedule clashed so Aries and Bonda could only attend via tele-conferencing (am not kidding you). Anyways...after sorting out schedules.. everything is sorted..

14 to 18th April 2011, KK for 14 of us:-

Atuk
Nenda
Opah
MIL
FIL
SIL
Bonda
Ayahanda
Me
Aries
Akmal
Airiel
Airiel's nanny
Akmal's nanny

All for under 3k pergi balik ok? That's just super cheap!!!

Am so excited...

April 2011, can't wait for you to arrive!!!

InsyaAllah jika masih ada nyawa...

Monday, November 8, 2010

Reminder to myself



Peringatan kepada diri sendiri untuk hari ini.

12 BARISAN MANUSIA MENUJU KE AKHIRAT:-

Barisan pertama
Diiringi dari kubur dlm keadaan tidak bertangan & berkaki.Keadaan ini dijelaskan melalui seruan Allah swt :  "mereka orang2 yg menyakiti hati jiran sewaktu hidup mereka, mereka yg sombong & tidak berbuat kebaikan kepada jiran tetangga akan mendapat kehinaan di dunia maupun di akhirat".  Firman Allah "aku akan memalingkan hati orang yg sombong serta takbur di muka bumi ini dengan tiada alasan yg benar dari (memahami) ayat2 ku (yg menunjukkan kekuasaan ku), itulah balasan & tempat kembali mereka adalah neraka"


Barisan ke-2 
Diiringi dari kubur dlm bentuk babi hutan.  < Datang seruan Allah "mereka orang yg meringan2kan solat sewaktu hidup, sesungguhnya orang yg memelihara solat 5 waktu akan dihindari dari siksa kubur sebaliknya, mereka yg mengabaikan maka waktu dia mati, mayatnya akan dihimpit oleh liang lahat sehingga berselisih tulang rusuk".  Rasulullah saw bersabda "sesungguhnya seorang hamba apabila dia berdiri untuk bersolat, maka diletakkan semua dosanya di atas kepala & kedua2 bahunya, maka setiap kali dia rukuk atau sujud, berjatuhanlah dosa2 itu

 
BARISAN KE 3: Di iringi dari kubur dgn bentuk keldai & perut penuh ular serta kala jengking."Mereka adalah orang yg enggan membayar zakat ketika hidupnya walaupun pada ketika itu mereka tergolong dlm orang yg berkemampuan.  Inilah balasannya & tempat kembali mereka adalah neraka"


Barisan ke-4
Diiringi dari kubur dlm keadaan darah memancut keluar dari mulut"Mereka adalah antara orang yg suka berdusta ketika berjual beli.  Berniagalah dengan jujur serta amanah agar hasil yg diperoleh datang dari sumber yg halal"


Barisan ke-5
 : Diiringi dari kubur dalam keadaan berbau busuk seperti bangkai
Ketika itu Allah menurunkan angin sehingga bau busuk itu menganggu ketenteraman padang mahsyar "mereka ini adalah orang yang menyembunyikan perlakuan derhaka, takut diketahui oleh manusia tetapi tidak pula takut kepada Allah.  Inilah balasannya & tempat mereka juga adalah neraka."


Barisan ke-6
 > : Diiringi dari kubur dengan keadaan kepala terputus dari badanMereka adalah orang yg dahulunya menjadi saksi palsu.


Barisan ke-7
  : Diiringi dari kubur tanpa lidah tetapi mengalir darah & nanah dari mulut Mereka-mereka ini adalah orang yg enggan memberi kesaksian kebenaran.


Barisan ke-8 
Diiringi dari kubur dlm keadaan terbalik,kepala ke bawah & kaki ke atasMereka adalah orang yg melakukan zina.  Tempat mereka juga adalah di neraka.  Sabda Rasulullah "tiada bersunyi2an antara seorang lelaki & wanita, melainkan wujudnya syaitan sebagai orang ketiga antara mereka"


Barisan ke-9
< >:Diiringi dari kubur dengan wajah hitam & bermata biru, sementara dlm diri mereka penuh dengan api gemuruhMereka adalah orang yg makan harta anak yatim dengan cara yang tidak sepatutnya


Barisan ke-10
 : Diiringi dari kubur dlm keadaan tubuh berpenyakit sopak & dipenuhi kustaMereka ini adalah orang yg derhaka kepada ibu bapa sewaktu hidupnya.


Barisan ke-11
 : Diiringi dari kubur dlm keadaan buta, gigi panjang seperti tanduk lembu jantan bibir terjuih hingga ke dada & lidah terjulur hingga ke perut serta keluar pelbagai kotoran yg menjijikkan.Mereka ini adalah orang yg minum arak sewaktu hidupnya.


Barisan ke-12
 : Diiringi dari kubur dengan wajah bersinar2 seperti bulan purnama, mereka melalui titian siratulmustakim seperti kilat.Datang suara dari sisi Allah yang memaklumkan "mereka semasa hidupnya adalah orang yg beramal salih & melakukan kebaikan.  Mereka juga menjauhi perbuatan derhaka, memelihara solat lima waktu, & meninggalkan dunia dalam keadaan bertaubat..  Inilah balasan mereka & tempat kembali mereka adalah syurga, beroleh keampunan,kasih sayang & keredhaan Allah swt."


Ya Allah, moga hambamu ini dapat bersama dengan hamba-hambamu yang berjalan di barisan ke-12 kelak. Amin