Tuesday, December 11, 2012

5 Years of Marriage

Dearest Aries,

I am sorry I forgot to put up a post on our 5th anniversary!

Yes, it has been 5 years indeed last month, 30th!

“No long-term marriage is made easily, and there have been times when I've been so angry or so hurt that I thought my love would never recover. And then, in the midst of near despair, something has happened beneath the surface. A bright little flashing fish of hope has flicked silver fins and the water is bright and suddenly I am returned to a state of love again — till next time. I've learned that there will always be a next time, and that I will submerge in darkness and misery, but that I won't stay submerged. And each time something has been learned under the waters; something has been gained; and a new kind of love has grown. The best I can ask for is that this love, which has been built on countless failures, will continue to grow. I can say no more than that this is mystery, and gift, and that somehow or other, through grace, our failures can be redeemed and blessed.” 

Lets put up with each other some more years, shall we? For nostalgia's sake, I am putting up this pic of us.

Ok lah. Ini bukan tempat berjiwang jiwang.

Biarlah sampai syurga ... (although you  know statistically 99 % of the population according to our religion will actually go to hell [well, at least at first] right?)

Ever the realist, pessimist (combination of both),